50/50 or Giving 100%
But it gets to the point where we start backing off on what we
ourselves offer to the relationship because we are hoping to see the
other person notice - and step up tot he plate a little more.
You see, a lot of parenting experts say that both marriage partners
should be giving 50/50 to the marriage relationship. Marriage is a team
effort, right? But when we use this kind of focus, we end up giving
just enough until the other one starts to meet us halfway.
What we should be doing is giving 100% of who we are. We should be
giving our ALL to our mate! If each spouse gave 100% effort, love,
devotion, commitment, grace, and work to the marriage - can you imagine
how strong and amazing that marriage relationship would be?
I
want to have that kind of marriage! I want to be that kind of wife. One
where I'm dedicated to giving my all - regardless of the accolades I
get for it. I think, no, I know - that if I can give my 100% to my
marriage, that my husband will be motivated to give his 100% too.
A marriage will have new life breathed into it when the focus is simply shifted from 50/50 to giving 100%.
It's not about meeting someone halfway. It's about being the best you can be for yourself and for someone else.
Don't give "just enough." Give your all. And discover how it changes
your outlook (and how it grows your love) for your husband and your
marriage. Hard work pays off. Put in the time and effort it takes - and
see the rewards when your marriage gets the pay-off.
About the Author
Dionna Sanchez is the Founder of the Emphasis On Moms Ministry. You can sign up for her free monthly newsletter at http://www.EmphasisOnMoms.com/newsletter.htm.
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